Jedi Let Go of Ties
Dear fellow Jedi,
Respectively I have a problem with my self. I have just recently
got dumped from my girlfriend. our love lasted for three years before I found
out that she's having an affair with my friend.......I told her that I knew
the truth and willing to for give her but Instead she dumped me. I know this is a bad thing but my dark side begins to grow
stronger. please tell me the way to stop my dark side
MTFBWY
Greetings friend, your troubles are familiar to me, as they will be familiar to most people.
If you truly love someone, then the most important thing is that they are safe, happy and well. It matters not if that is with yourself or whoever, as long as they are happy. True love means that you will do anything for them, even let them go if that is what they want.
The grief and pain that you are experiencing at the moment is due to the feelings of loss and change.
You must let go of your ties and desires and move on. Be there as a caring friend as and when she needs you to be. She has her own path ahead of her as you have yours.
Be grateful for the time you had spent together but do not hold on to it.
Remember that Anakins downfall was the fear of loss. Nothing lasts forever, change always occurs. Only the Force is eternal.
You have entered a new chapter of life, rejoice in that, focus on the moment and learn to do the best with each moment that you have. Life goes on and so must we. You must heal yourself and let go of attachments.
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